Forgiveness gets confused with approval. It is not agreeing that it was fine; it is deciding to stop paying rent on it.
Expect resistance from these lines — that is normal, and not a sign the practice is failing. Say the one you can mean today and leave the rest for later.
15 affirmations to say out loud
1I am not perfect and make mistakes. And that’s okay.
2I accept myself for who I am.
3Mistakes are a part of life and teach me valuable lessons.
4Self-hatred does not serve me.
5I release all judgement, guilt, and shame.
6I accept that I did the best I could at the time with what I knew.
7I am capable of moving beyond my mistakes.
8I am not a victim and accept full responsibility for my choices and actions.
9I accept myself with unconditional love and let go of my past.
10I am doing the best I can with what I have.
11Each day I am getting better at being a good person.
12I own my mistakes and forgive myself.
13I release all stress and tension towards myself and forgive.
14I am a good person and forgive myself for any mistakes I have made.
15I forgive myself so I can have inner peace again.
The app holds 95 affirmations in “Forgiveness”, with audio, voices and daily reminders.
How to use them
Start with yourself. The hardest grudges are usually self-directed.
Say the line when the memory arrives, instead of arguing with it.
Give it weeks, not days. This is the slow category.